quiet often it happens with us that we plan something but what turns out is exact opposite of that. well at least with me this is a habit now. so have got used to it. so much so i have stopped planning now. but then i've learnt another thing. if you look at it from a broader perspective, nothing can be planned in life. things happen as they're to happen. its a mere coincidence that sometimes they happen in a similar fashion as we had planned. and we feel happy about it. its only in story books/novels one gets to read that lead protagonist's life took all the turns as planned. we all are lead actors/actresses in our lives & obviously our lives' revolve around our story only. but then sometimes somebody else becomes more important for us. and life changes completely.